When I come across young boys and girls
saying “I want to become a film star”, “I want to become an F1 driver”, “I want
to become Sachin Tendulkar”, “I want to become a teacher” etc, a strange
feeling runs through my body – OMG, these kids are so clear about what they
want to become, if they really pursue it they can so easily achieve it! And my
mind inexorably goes to my own state of mind not so long ago (my high school
days, to be precise) when I – to some extent – had a plethora of options on
which career path to take. Arts, Science, Commerce, Engineering, Medicine,
Computers – you name it, the option was very much there!
And of course the all encompassing, go
anywhere-do anything option called MBA!
I’m not an actor, I’m not a painter, I
can’t sing and I don’t play games (sic) – and that ruled out one path that is
reserved for those born with God-gifted skills. This was something I realized
after finishing my high school and had to make the crucial decision of which
stream to select – science, commerce or arts. My career can only be out of
acquired learning through education and interpersonal skills which is a life
long honing process.
No, these are not easy decisions to make!
And I looked confused, exasperated and indecisive. My mother shared my worries.
My dad had a big laugh and would say “Great to be in this state of mind! As far
as I have seen, all those who don’t know what career to choose end up choosing
whatever career a majority of their friends opt”.
“That’s Engineering with Software as the
destination” I tell him and he again laughs! Dad knows how much I hate being a
nerd but yet insists that this is where the best paid jobs exist and I should
be there. Medicine is not my cup of tea either – what a relief, dad agrees that
a reluctant medical student is likely to become a bad doctor who will put the
lives of many at risk.
Not Commerce. Not Law. Etc. It’s so easy to
decide what to not do! In fact I find myself staring at everything other than
“what to do!”
The only thing I seem to be clear about is
my philosophy: “I don’t want to be a fish out of water … I want to be a duck in
a pond”.
In the last few years I have thought about
my career quite a lot and am convinced the only way to be a “duck in the pond”
is by following some simple rules:
·
I need to be clear about my
life’s vision, mission and core values
·
I need to understand my
personality traits, innate abilities and natural talents
·
I need to be clear about my
needs, wants, hopes and dreams
·
I need to continually acquire
knowledge and skills to fulfill my dreams
·
I need to believe that my
abilities are far more than what I have achieved
·
I need to be committed and
passionate about what I want to achieve
As a student of mass communication in the
last 3+ years, I am pretty sure I have chosen a line in sync with my natural
abilities. I have learnt a lot, but more importantly there is a lot more to
learn. Communication is a field that touches more than 6 billion people every
minute of the day – and if we can find a
niche that belongs to us, we can truly say “Heart is where our profession is!”.
Manisha Raghunath
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